Vibe Safe
Community Standards
Every interaction on Viiiben whether in app, at events, and in person is governed by our Terms of Service. Misuse of another user's card or profile, harassment, stalking, or unwanted contact is grounds for immediate removal and potential legal action. We reserve the right to terminate any account at any time.
The Card & Consent
A Viiiben card is an invitation. Not a pass. If they tap "Not Vibing"; that's a final answer. Do not re-engage through other means. A match is not consent to meet IRL. A date is not consent to anything physical. Consent can be withdrawn at any time. Zero tolerance. No exceptions.
Your Data. Your Control.
Your profile is only visible to someone who physically scans your card. You control everything on it. You can delete your account and data at any time. We do not sell your personal information. Ever.
Viiiben Events
All attendees agree to our event terms upon RSVP. Physical contact without consent is grounds for a permanent ban and may be reported to law enforcement. If something feels wrong, report it in app or call 911.
How we Protect You
No unsolicited discovery: Profiles are only accessible through a physical card scan
Messaging only unlocks through mutual vibing
Block and report available on every profile and message
All reports reviewed within 24 hours
Repeat offenders permanently banned
Serious violations escalated to law enforcement
If Something Goes Wrong
Emergency: Call 911 first
In app: Tap report on any profile or message
Follow up: safety@viiiben.com
Courage Deserves Protection
Why Viiiben Exists
Viiiben was built to inspire courage. We know handing someone a card takes a lot of it and we intend to protect that. There are behaviors that have no place here, not in the app, not in DMs, not at events, not ever. What follows is not a suggestion. It's the standard.
What Is Never Acceptable
The following are prohibited. "Just joking" is not a defense.
Messaging after no response or handing a second card after "Not Vibing"
Unsolicited sexual content, explicit images, or unwanted comments about someone's body
Humiliation, mockery, manipulation, or guilt-tripping after a rejection
Threats, hate speech, or discrimination of any kind
Violations result in immediate removal and may be reported to law enforcement.
Subtle Red Flags
Not all harmful behavior is obvious. Trust your gut.
Pushing past a boundary you've already set
Making you feel responsible for their feelings after rejection
Using Refer a Friend to bypass a "Not Vibing" response
Pressuring you to respond faster or explain yourself
Making you feel unsafe in any way whether in app, at an event, or after meeting IRL.
How We Handle Reports
Every report is reviewed within 24 hours by our safety team. Serious violations are escalated to law enforcement immediately.
One tap to report on every profile and message.
One tap to block so they can no longer contact you or view your profile.
Consequences
Reports are not taken lightly. The person reported may face a formal warning, temporary suspension, permanent ban, or law enforcement escalation for serious violations. The safety of this community is not negotiable.
If Something Goes Wrong
You have the right to feel safe, respected, and in control of every interaction on Viiiben. End a conversation, block a profile, or leave an event at any time.
Protect your vibe. Report what's wrong. We handle the rest.
We’ve Got Resources
Block Someone
Done with the conversation? Block anyone at any time so they can no longer message you, see your profile, or contact you through Viiiben.
Open your chat → tap the three dots → select "Block."
Report Inappropriate Behavior
If something made you uncomfortable, report it.
Open your chat → tap the three dots → select the option that best fits your report. Additional details are encouraged but not required.
Reach Our Team
Have a question or need support? We're here.
Email safety@viiiben.com or reach us directly through the app anytime.
Crisis Support
Sometimes you need to talk to someone outside the platform. Here are some additional resources:
Crisis Text Line — Text HOME to 741741
National Sexual Assault Hotline — 1-800-656-HOPE (4673) · rainn.org
How we Protect You
Love Is Respect (dating abuse) — 1-866-331-9474 · loveisrespect.org
National Domestic Violence Hotline — 1-800-799-7233 · thehotline.org
Emergency
If you are in immediate danger, call 911. Your safety comes before anything else.